Here's the irony: It is a dating question about men. All three people involved were women.
So for a different perspective, I hope that all guys reading this post -married, single, dating whatever- take a chance to read this question from a concerned reader. Answer -in this blog- about how you would answer this question because your insights lasts longer here than on facebook.
"A couple of friends and I have been trying out eHarmony. In an effort to the let the men lead, I've been waiting for my matches to initiate contact before entering into a conversation with them. The trouble is that there are two or three who've intrigued me from their profile, but they have not contacted me. After two or three weeks, I wonder if I've just gotten lost in the list of matches that accumulate over time. Would it be helpful to them to just drop an ice breaker or initiate a conversation?
How do you answer it guys?
